I know my past reputation sucks... But I'd like a second chance.
... Who By The Way, Is Blonde and Gorgeous
Published on November 11, 2004 By lostncompletelyconfused In Blogging
Ok.... get this... My husband, called me today and told me "Hey, hun! I just got back from having lunch with my 'friend' how was your doctor's appt?" She's blonde.. she's pretty. She hasn't gained 35 pounds in the last 7 and a half months. She is the 'perfect' girl. He hasn't said that, but I bet he's thinking it. I mean, I have stretch marks! I used to be a cheerleader! I have stretch marks now!

Any ways... I won't go on and on about that, because I'm probably just over-analyzing it...

I had a doctor's appoinment today, and he said "Yep, thats a girl you got in there!" So... ... It's almost official, I don't want to lean on what he says, because Alyssa was supposed to be a boy... Well, she's very much a girl. Anywho... I can't stop thinking that my husband is probably spending time with his "friend" and having a good time while I'm sitting here at home, huge alone, and very bored, missing him tremendously.

Maybe I should call him... I don't know though... I've never had any reason not to trust him, but I mean, look at the facts here... I'm 19, 35 pounds bigger than normal, I feel like a whale, I have stretch marks, and I'm a brunette... She's 18, beautiful, blonde, at least 40 pounds smaller than me, she's like the fish that the whale accidentally swallowed... Anyways... She's pretty much perfect, Although... Aric has always said that he loves me for my brains and not just my body. Which is probably a good thing considering after having Alyssa, my body was never the same... go figure...

Anyways, I'm tired and I am going to sit here with the phone and hope that he calls... I feel like I'm 16 again, waiting for the boy to call me after a date that didn't go perfect.

Am I wrong for being so worried about all this?

Ashlee

Comments
on Nov 11, 2004
Ashlee,

No you are not wrong for feeling this way. It is completely normal to have these feelings when you are pregnant. (heck even when not pregnant) Of course I am sure you already know this since you have been pregnant before.

Have you told your husband how you feel right now? He may be oblivious that you are feeling insecure right now. If he does know how you feel, he may spend a little more time comforting you and lavishing you with kind words instead of lunching with his "friend."

Chin up...what you are doing is the greatest gift any woman can give to her husband!
on Nov 11, 2004
I agree with iamheather 100%, you should talk to your husband about your fears. I'm sure he will realize how selfish he's been not to consider how you'd feel with him hanging around bimbos when you're pregnant (And right, even if you WEREN'T).

Cheer up, all you need to do is start a dialogue
on Nov 11, 2004
Thanks... I think he tried to call, but when I got up to get the phone, I was wobbling too slow and I missed it. *sighs* I'm the stupid one who put the phone back on the thingy (i can't remember what it's called lol) instead of keeping it in my hand after a long talk with my mom.... ugh... parents... off topic.. sorry

*sighs* maybe he'll call again... Probably not, but maybe.

Ashlee
on Nov 11, 2004
Congratulations! I hope you and your baby are healthy on the big day.

As for your feelings you're not wrong to have them. How you react, and how he reacts, to those feelings is what counts. People do get hungry. And some of us do prefer brunettes! Besides, he married you...
on Nov 11, 2004
And some of us do prefer brunettes! Besides, he married you...


Thanks! you made me smile! And yeah, I guess he did marry me, didn't he. I already got that blonde over in two ways now.. well three if you consider the two children that Aric has because of me! lol...

Ashlee